WHAT IS THE RESIDENT FELLOWS PROGRAM
OF THE CHRISTIAN STUDY CENTRE AT HAVEN HOUSE?
Resident Fellows of the Christian Study Centre at Haven House are committed to following a faithful lifestyle and growing in godliness as defined in the Christian Scriptures. The Christian Study Centre seeks to provide a safe, secure, and nurturing environment so that each resident’s relationship with Christ is actively cultivated by living at Haven House.
Resident Fellows are expected to be individuals seeking a place to live out their faith and take advantage of the community ministries that YWAM Student Centre offers. Resident Fellows agree to encourage and exhort one another and visitors at Haven House by adhering to the Resident Fellows Program Covenant Commitments.
COVENANT COMMITMENTS
Table Fellowship: I will attend and help host a weekly shared meal and open worship time.
Worship: I will attend a weekly Bible study/worship gathering with the residents’ church or fellowship group.
Mentorship: I will meet with a personal Mentor bi-monthly to set and review goals.
Advancement:
Cleanliness: I will maintain a clean household & personal living space.
Training & Outreach: I will participate in training events, including a bi-annual orientation retreat, and community outreaches.
Rent: I will pay my Resident Fellowship Fees (which includes rent, utilities, and basic food requirements) promptly.
BE-ATTITUDES AT HAVEN HOUSE
BE PRAYERFUL - Be sensitive to what the Holy Spirit does and join Him and others in prayer.
BE ON TIME - Please be on time for all meetings. If you will be late, please inform a staff member.
BE RESPECTFUL—Address each other with their preferred names and always ask before touching someone (both male and female Residents may have emotional wounds that can be triggered by touching without permission). Respect privacy and ask permission to take photos of Residents and Guests.
BE CLEAN AND HELPFUL—Maintain a clean and tidy Room and Common Areas. Volunteer to assist with clean-up whenever possible. After using a Common Area, please remove all personal items and leave the facilities cleaner than when we arrived.
BE SAFE—Watch for safety concerns and notify a Program Director if you see something that needs attention. All Residents must be clean and free of drugs and excessive alcohol consumption at Haven House. Addictive behavior to any kind of substance, activities, including the viewing of pornographic or indecent media, is prohibited, and help should be requested as soon as possible. Participation in sexual relationships outside of heterosexual marriage is cause for dismissal from the Resident Fellows Program. If any illegal drugs are found in the possession of any Resident or Guest, a Program Director should be notified.
BE HONORABLE—Do not speak negatively about anyone, especially when they are not present. The use of abusive, destructive, and vulgar speech is always prohibited. If we do talk dishonorably about a Resident or Program Director, we will ask for forgiveness within 24 hours.
A Christian Community
In a culture that valued homogeneity – where, for example, one only shared meals with persons of the same social strata – the followers of Jesus looked strange. Across racial, religious, and economic barriers, the Early Christians cared for other Christians simply because they had found a common identity following King Jesus. And they understood that their chief testimony to the surrounding culture was not in their answers about the faith (though those are important!) but in how they cared for one another. Participation in this Resident Fellows Program involves relinquishing control of who you live with and intentionally welcoming diversity in our residential community.
What does a Christian Community look like? We do not merely co-exist, simply sharing the same living space, and we are not merely housemates. Life together in a Christian community requires much more and gives much in return. Resident Fellows at Haven House are students pursuing a degree or young adults starting a career; others may be ministry staff or interns. However, all Residents will welcome student groups and others for prayer, worship, and outreach planning activities at Haven House.
Table Fellowship
You may not have practiced table fellowship in your family of origin or your church community. You may not have experienced a routine of mealtimes lingering around the table to listen to one another’s stories. Why? Because American families rarely sit together for meals. And when they do, they are either scrolling their devices, watching TV, or rushing out the door for a sports activity.
Why is it important to practice table fellowship? In September 2022, the American Heart Association surveyed 1,000 American adults. They found that 91% of parents notice their family is less stressed when they share family meals, and respondents reported eating alone about half the time. The result is an epidemic of emotional distress.
Jesus’ evangelism, discipleship, and mission lifestyle begins at a table, a welcoming space where personal stories are shared. Our non-formal lifestyle discipleship at Haven House fosters an environment of trust, vulnerability, and spiritual growth through authentic community connections. But it takes work to break the cycle of isolation and emotional distress.
The Work: Cultivating Christian Community
Sometimes this is the work of giving what you don’t want to give (e.g., an apology, the time it takes to clean the dishes). Sometimes it is the work of not having what you want to have (e.g., the last word, your choice of music). The difficulties raised by this common life can be seen in the pages of the New Testament. The gospels' authors and letters to the early church described how a Jesus-centered life changes everything. We are doing the work of cultivating a Christian Community as described in the New Testament. (See the attached list, ’The One Anothers.’)
Your Resident Fellow’s Covenant Commitment Promise is simple, but profound. Together we endeavor to live in a way that glorifies Jesus and nourishes our lives as his followers. Among other things, it includes working, with God’s help, to care, repent, and forgive in the way that the ‘One Another’ passages describe. It also involves reading, thinking, and talking together about following Jesus as college students and young adults.
Activities
To get specific about activities, some of the work you should expect to do with the Christian Study Centre includes:
Table Fellowship - A weekly sit-down meal, discussion, and worship gatherings with guests (typically Mondays 6:30 - 8:30 pm)
House meetings - Announcements and personal check-in (day and time to be determined by Residents)
Morning Prayer (Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, 6:30-7 am)
Move-In Day Lunch - Serving lunch to students (Date and Time TBD)
WHO I AM Weekend Intensive - A two-day orientation retreat for all residents and guests, on the first weekend of the fall and spring semesters.
PROBLEM SOLVING AMONG RESIDENTS
The Resident agrees to solve personal conflict as outlined in the Bible (Matthew 18:15-20, Ephesians 4:15-32, Galatians 6:1, Proverbs 18:13). If the Resident has a conflict with another Resident, they are first encouraged to solve problems between themselves. If they cannot solve the problem independently, they are to seek help from their Mentor, a Program Director, or a Pastor of their Church Fellowship. YWAM Student Centre and/or Program Director(s) may bring in other sources of counsel to help solve any issues. The Resident agrees to solve problems consistent with the Bible and, in the absence of criminal activity, to avoid legal recourse for any dispute.
ABIDING BY THE GUIDELINES
I also agree to abide by all applicable written guidelines or policies that YWAM Student Centre and/or Program Director(s) have established. Any persistent violation of any written community guidelines, commitments, or evaluations of misbehavior is cause for dismissal from the Resident Fellows Program and eviction from Haven House.
COVENANT COMMITMENT PROMISE
As a part of the Resident Fellows Program of the Christian Study Centre at Haven House, I promise to fully participate in the life of the community, with God’s help, submitting myself to self-scrutiny and willing correction, and seeking to love and honor God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. I will do my best to maintain close communication and relationships with my fellow residents and the program directors throughout the term of my residence. I recognize that the program directors are tasked with counseling and correcting me for my own sake and the community's sake. I promise to respond to their general direction to the group, or their specific direction to me, with promptness and graciousness.
John and Mary Henry,
missionaries with YWAM Student Centre,
direct the Christian Study Centre at Haven House.
John and Mary have served with YWAM’s University of the Nations since 1989 when they began directing YWAM’s Field Ministry Internships program. They have mobilized over 350 students from over 100 colleges and universities in over 10 countries to over 80 internship and outreach projects in over 40 countries.
Through the School of University Ministries & Missions, a 12-week course presented in Brazil, Colombia, Ecuador, India, South Korea, Thailand, and the USA, they have trained student missions leaders who are now working in over 100 cities in over 35 countries. John’s lectures emphasize God’s calling, spiritual formation, and leadership emergence.
John received his MA in Global Leadership at Fuller School of Intercultural Studies in Pasadena, CA in 2009.
Mary is a Transformational Prayer facilitator and Health Coach.
They have three grown children, Justin, Nathan, and Rebecca.
Romans 12:9-21. Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints; extend hospitality to strangers. Bless those who persecute you. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another; do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly; do not claim to be wiser than you are. Do not repay anyone evil for evil, but take thought for what is noble in the sight of all. If it is possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
Romans 14:13-21. If your brother or sister is being injured by what you eat, you are no longer walking in love. Do not let what you eat cause the ruin of one for whom Christ died. So do not let your good be spoken of as evil. For the kingdom of God is not food and drink but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. The one who thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and has human approval. Let us then pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding. Do not, for the sake of food, destroy the work of God. Everything is indeed clean, but it is wrong for you to make others fall by what you eat; it is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that makes your brother or sister stumble.
Galatians 5:13-26. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against such things.
Ephesians 4:1-7. I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:11-16. But speaking the truth in love, we must grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every ligament with which it is equipped, as each part is working properly, promotes the body's growth in building itself up in love.
Hebrews 10:23-27. Let us hold fast to the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who has promised is faithful. And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching. For if we willfully persist in sin after having received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a fearful prospect of judgment, and a fury of fire that will consume the adversaries.
James 5 :13-16. Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.
1 Peter 4:7-11. The end of all things is near; therefore be serious and discipline yourselves for the sake of your prayers. Above all, maintain constant love for one another, for love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaining. Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received. Whoever speaks must do so as one speaking the very words of God; whoever serves must do so with the strength that God supplies, so that God may be glorified in all things through Jesus Christ.
1 John 3:14-24. We know that we have passed from death to life because we love one another. Whoever does not love abides in death. All who hate a brother or sister are murderers, and you know that murderers do not have eternal life abiding in them. We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us—and we ought to lay down our lives for one another. How does God's love abide in anyone who has the world's goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help? Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.
Colossians 3:1-17. As God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in the one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; teach and admonish one another in all wisdom;
Ephesians 5:1-21. Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children, and live in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But fornication and impurity of any kind, or greed, must not even be mentioned among you, as is proper among saints. Entirely out of place is obscene, silly, and vulgar talk; but instead, let there be thanksgiving.